Tuesday, November 13, 2012

MBA -Master of Bogus Activities

I am now at an age where I am at  crossroads. Most of my duties as caregiver to my tiny tot, parents and in laws have ebbed off. I can afford 3 or 4 square meals, a roof and a vast of expanse of cloth needed to cover my modesty. So while I make professional appearances and do paid work, I can afford to do pro bono work as well apart from giving to my chosen charity . One such chartiy is in our native place. As any true blooded Indian knows, that is the place your parents or grandparents were born or lived. This village is deep in south India in Tenkasi district of Tamil Nadu.  it is called Sri Sai Subramanya Charity trust and they essentially rum remedial or after school tuition classes for a few hundred kids. The mothers of these students mostly roll Beedis and the fathers are agricultural workers. SOme of the kids also do chores and supplement the meagre family income. The trust gives them books, clothes apart from th classes. they also try to expose them by taking them on excursions to waterfalls, Zoos and dams and such places. Visitors who have are educated and exposed to the outside world are encouraged to interact with the students.

I was one such visitor. The founders of this trust Lakshmi Ramakrishnan and her husband Ramakrishnan ( Who is also the founder of Amar Seve Sangam and a receipient of many national and international awards like CNBC Awaaz's Rea Hero Award)  asked me to talk to about 40 students of Class 9 and 10 and their teachers  about variour career paths in an interactive way. So I asked them to tell me what they wanted to become, what course they would like to do and why were they inspired towards that course,

They talked about wanting to become teachers ( 60% of the girls had that as an aspiration), engineers, police officers, doctors and a couple of lawyers as well. They were encouraged to ask questions and they asked me about my career. i told them that I had done an MBA. They had not heard of this at all. I expanded it and tod them it was a Masters in Business Administration. SO they wanted to know what kind of a skill that was and I gave them some examples. They then wanted to know what inspired me to do MBA. The kids had talked about how they were inspired to see their teachers, how doctors had cured their grandmom and how lawyers would uphold justice etc. MBA seemed a very materialistic choice in comparision. They then interrogated me on my inspiration and I told them that I had met some cool people in my dad's office and I wanted be like them and that is how I found out about this course. Soon enough 2 of the youngsters wanted to do MBA and that did indeed please me.

Many readers of this blog would have heard of Abhijit Bhaduri's book on life as an MBA student, entitled Mediocre But Arrogant where if you are into a management institute , you will surely go out as an MBA. In retrospect basic sciences etc seem so much more scholarly, especially sinceyou will not work under someone who is less qualified than you. Many people who are succcescful do an MBA as a learning. I did as mostly a means of earning. When i started working, the very process of working taught me a lot. So in retrospect, many activities were bogus. and I have almost honed the art of earning through important sounding work and activities.

I an an excellent Master Of Bogus Activities.

Little one''s little love

As anyone who knows me would know, I have a son. He is a big boy now. He was little once. He is not demonstrative, but shows a little hint of affection once in a while.

Between 1997 and 2002 we visited the US quite often , mostly spent the months of April and May there. And it is in this period that mothers' day is celebrated . At first he couldn't understand how my birthday could change. He after all had a mother with a birthday in August. Then he figured that it was a day that mothers are felicitated and gifts are brought for them etc. In the US my son would do small chores and collect quarters and he had a few dollar saved.

A few days before one mothers' day, he made me wait outside Lechters' (one more victim of bad times in US) and he bought me a beautiful set of knives . I was very pleased. It had set him back a good 9 dollars, almost half of what he saved. The day before mothers' day, he spied a magnetic clip withTAZ ( a comic character modelled on the Tasmanian Devil) and I like it and bought it for 3 princely dollars. On our return , my kiddo sidled up to me and said, "You know that the knives cost a lot of money. Will you please buy them for yourselves and accept Taz as my gift.

And that love for us continues. As I already mentioned he is a big boy with the right to vote now and even earns money on summer jobs and internships. And I am expecting nothing but great love in the form of something cheap from him when he visits me in Bangalore from his temporary base in a US university. 

Monday, August 6, 2012

Appreciating my Origins- Where I am from

This is a piece of poetry I wrote in a confluence on "Appreciative Inquiry. Here it goes:

WHERE I AM FROM
I am from my mother's womb
       With my dashing father as the Groom
I am from joyful Kolkata
       And from Koti and from Kota
I was made in Delhi's Patli Gali
       With Ingredients from Bengaluru's Puttenahalli
I am a minx  and a sphinx
I beam with my brother's love
   I came into my own when he carried me to play
In our grandparents. coconut grove
I exist and so I am
  To celebrate I eat cheese and ham
And I cherish the doors that DID not slam.
I came to be a mother and  had to bother,
    and smother and ponder over that little bundle of wonder
I am the earth, wind and the fire
       and The Higgins-Boson whose proof mighty minds desire

I am more than where I came from  and there is more to where I came from
I came from nothingness and I aspire to go back to that  nothingness
In that nothingness await my precious sire and my mother and my brother
All eager to once more with  love drench me and to smother
and strip me of my ego and  show me the vastness of the nothingness

Gayatri







 


Thursday, March 1, 2012

My new pre-occupation

I have enrolled in a course which will lead to my being certified as a Professional coach. It is a pre-occupation for 2 reasons. The first reason because it occupies a large part of my day on most days. The second is because I hope to make it part of my occupation from June 2012 onwards.
I have a separate blog on my coaching journey which is still stuck at the starting post.

I have many friends who earn more than just a decent living through coaching. They were serious people with lot of experience in corporates with a few certifications tucked in as well. Moreover, I viewed them as patient people who tolerated fools far more than I did. They were good listeners.
LISTENING is a big monkey on my bag. Chattering is my strength..... However one fine day , in the course of a few hours, I had enrolled in this course, in no small part because of my patient friends who felt I had it in me to coach.

Here I am now, really enjoying my journey. This seems like a honeymoon period. I have mostly got positive feedback . With this new alliance, I am hoping to make this honeymoon last a lot longer than the belated one I tool 18 months into my marriage. My long suffering partner from my first alliance is patiently hearing my chatter as always. This time it is all about coaching.
Join me in my travels and travails.
 
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